Catalog for March, 2010

True Empowerment in the Workplace – You ARE the Business!

We, humans, are supposedly the most evolved creatures on the planet. If that’s true, why, for example, do we create workplaces where there are supervisors and managers? When you look at all the life forms on earth, each individual does it’s job without a boss overlooking their work. I don’t see a micro-manager robin dictating what other robins should be doing. I don’t see a vice president of orchids telling other orchids what to do. All of nature, including humans, grow up by imitating. All fall into line doing what they are supposed without a supervisor. If a salmon decides not to swim up the river, it dies. That’s it choice, but in reality, all want to survive and so most creatures follow along and do their thing.

The most recent studies confirm that productivity and personal fulfillment were considerably enhanced by the empowerment of employees by allowing greater autonomy in the workplace. A Cornell University study of 320 small businesses in which half granted their employees the opportunity to be self-directed and the other half relied upon management and top-down directives, the companies of autonomous workers grew four-times the rate of the controlling businesses, and also had one-third the employee turnover.

In this age of choices about everything, and of independent living (we have our own cars, computers, clickers, opt-in, opt-outs, and diversity of life styles, careers, friends, places), what in the world are we doing with an un-natural system of management. Management is un-evolved. Dump it. Fire the manager!

Two former human resource execs at Best Buy began a movement called ROWE (Results-Only Work Environment) and it’s been picked up by organizational psychologists who call it SDT(Self-Determination Theory). Not a theory but in fact, the entire world is evolving towards self-determination. Maybe we humans are finally getting it. We can be trusted. We can do the job on our own whenever, however and wherever and be happy!

As we march towards the self-directed way of working as we do in all other areas of life, obviously there needs to be some training and education for this new, yet natural way. That’s where a person like myself comes in. Having been self-employed for over 30 years, I know what it’s like to be autonomous. Whether you work for a company or work alone, you essentially have to learn the skill of being “your own business.” You are the business. Go to www.youbiz.us and see what it takes to truly be effectively autonomous – You, yourself, must navigate the workplace waters and be the CEO of your professional life. You, yourself, must know what your product or service is; stay updated with your competence level; sell and market your skills; be the CFO manager of your own financial house; be the quality controller of your own work; and connect, communicate to partner and collaborate.

The often used concept of “empowerment” is truly and finally coming home to roost. It’s your time to take the power of your work life in your hands. If you have employees, it’s your now-destiny to liberate your workers. Autonomy in the workplace makes for happier and more productive workers and by extension, greater profits for the company. Power to the person! YOU.

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Women Lead With Intuition

My intuition has always told me that women would be great leaders, whether of corporations, organizations and, of course, families, and we see today many fatherless households and females in management positions for half the companies in the U.S., let alone the rising number of women in government and politics.

Why would my inner voice tell me this? For one, because women bear and birth the survival of the species, it seems naturally logical that they would be well equipped to run the show. Nature is very down-to-earth wise. Can you imagine nature entrusting a less sustainable being for the future? Nature does not work that way. It figures out the most efficient and reliable means for life’s perpetuation.

As I am about to produce a YouTube “2010 Year of The Empress” piece, which is about this year as a time of creativity, production and self-reliance, I read a USA Today article with the headline of “Progesterone to the Rescue.” Say what? This article points out how this female hormone’s effect on healing brain injuries shows extraordinary promise. Study after empirical study have shown how this hormone, which plays a key role in maintaining pregnancy, has succeeded for brain damage where for over 30 years, drug after drug by the pharmaceuticals has been tried and failed. (This success applies equally to men and women and does not alter masculine traits, so relax guys).

I’ve always felt that because women live longer on average than men they must have some natural advantages. I am sure there are all sorts of explanations for this, but the one I want to focus on is women’s intuition. Whether for cultural or natural causes, women seem to trust their intuitiveness. Taking less time to be so “men tal” and logical by thinking and thinking through something and by simply going with the feeling impulse saves energy and even adds energy. Intuitions are emotive impulses that move and charge us! Analysis, on the other hand, leads to paralysis of action, and according to the physics Law of Motion, a body at rest tends to stay at rest – and how about leading to rigor mortise (death).

We know that intuitive empathy is the absolute key to effective communication, and ultimately leadership and human survival is dependent upon the degree of cooperation and communication between people. Leadership is all about motivating and organizing people – listening to and inspiring others. Humans are highly social creatures, so my own intuition informs me that those who can relate the best are the most capable of leading. So what about women?

Every study I have seen about how well women communicate – by understanding how another feels (intuitive empathy) – show that women are far more skilled than men. This is not to say the women are angels without fault, but I love working for or with a woman because of this high level of emotional and social intelligence.

However, this ability to communicate can go out the window when it comes to governance and “group think” (partisan politics) because it’s been shown time and time again how all humans, male and female, lose any semblance of empathy, sympathy, compassion when it’s a group relating to another group, party to party, nation to nation. I fear that the innate and instinctive intuitive women’s gift of inclusive communing and nurturing vanishes under the pressures of the collective which is so different from person to person.

In any event, I prefer women’s intuition and their people-centric way of living, rather than an idealistic, mentalized ideology that inevitably brings conflict – an opposite and equal reaction (the Third Law of Motion).

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Beating Depression With “Wonder Medicine”

We all go into bouts of the blahs, feeling down and, for some, even clinically depressed. This depressed state of mind sees nothing new to ignite the fire of life and heart of passion. It’s the same old, same old… no way out, no hope, nothing to look toward with enthusiasm and anticipation. Perhaps it takes a dose of wonder to beat depression and kick start the life force again.

As a remedy for the down, bored mind, and closed heart, I recommend this medicine. It’s called the New York Times Science Section Tuesday, March 16, 2010. If you can’t find something in this issue and dosage of Wow!, then it’s most likely you’re a heavy chemistry case and do need pills to rebalance.

In this printed form of “rejuvenation therapy,” how could you not get excited about a guy who’s going to jump out of a plane from 23 miles high in the air and break the sound barrier? Tiger playing the Masters doesn’t even come close to this kind of bloodcurdling drama! Nobody knows if this guy, Felix Baumgartner, will even survive. It’s possible his whole body might just fly apart during the jump. My adrenaline is jacked just thinking of this. I’m alive now. How about some adrenaline therapy for the depressed? ! Cured by OMG! (“A Supersonic Jump, From 23 Miles in the Air” – NY Times March 16).

How can this work for beating depression and despair? It seems now from the latest neuroscience findings that we all have these so-called “mirror neurons.” These special neurons, amongst the 100 billion that exist in our brain, are the basis for empathy – to feel what it’s like to walk in another’s shoes, or in this case, Baumgartner’s “winged boots?” Mirror neurons tell us that if you can imagine it, on a cellular level, you are doing it! The body doesn’t know the difference. Wow, the power of imagination! So, if you want the ultimate rush and a way of elevating your way out gloom and doom, jump! Follow Felix. It’s your mind’s eye for the magic for transformation.

If that doesn’t grab your gut, how about checking out this book, “Insectopedia” for more wonder medicine. Maybe on your descent to earth at supersonic speed, you fly into at 15,000 feet (almost 3 miles high) a flying spider with legs spread eagled. You will need some windshield wipers on your supersonic flying helmet.

If that’s not enough to freak you out of the blues, you might need a dose of “Smush,” a film about a society of men who get off watching little creatures like insects and earthworms get crushed, presumably even spiders 3 miles high. Sometimes it takes weirdness to crush through the conventional boredom of life. Shock therapy (without the wires).

If you find that crushing doesn’t work to beat your depression, cruising may. Cruise around in a low altitude square mile area of Louisiana where 36 million insects have been counted flying around. Ah, the sweet medicine of wonder in the air. If flying is not for you, at least go there in your imagination and perhaps you will land reborn. (“The Vast World of the Tiny, Arranged From A to Z” – NY Times March 16).

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Toyota, Brakes and You

As a dedicated Toyota car owner for many years, I was shocked by the faulty brake news. Obviously, some people have died because of runaway Toyotas, but tests have shown that it’s not so clear and evident how that occurs. And now I read a column by a professor emeritus of psychiatry at UCLA who has worked on brake problems with other kinds of car companies in the past. Why a psychiatrist would be consulted on this seemed strange to me, but upon reading his article, it made some sense. His conclusion after examining brakes that have gone bad is that it’s “user error.”

Wow! Now what’s scarier? Manufacturing error or human error? Who would you rather blame? Do you trust Toyota more or less than yourself?

So, what is the truth? Because I practice “both-and” thinking rather than the commonplace “either-or” thinking, it’s probably some combination of the two – a strange, uncommon Toyota anomaly perpetrated by some quirky driving of mixing up the accelerator pedal with the brake in the wrong way at the wrong time. The upshot is that this is a wake-up call for all of us, car manufacturers and ourselves.

Anyway, I just rented a Honda. (I am on a working road trip here in the Mid-Atlantic states).

But what about me, the driver? Heed the message – slow down, pay attention, stay balanced, even if I get lost in Baltimore, almost get run into, go the “wrong way” into a parking lot, and then get a parking ticket (all of which happened). Did my obsessive attention to driving consciously attract all this? Maybe, I need a psychiatrist? (Dangerous Driving Disorder – DDD?)

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Tarot Readings Online

Most of you who want a FREE Reading online will in most cases get you a mechanical reply. As a Reader for over 30 years, I know that canned Readings may not directly apply to you, though you can find value in them. As I say, “synchronicity rules,” so whatever the machine regurgitates to you is meaningful; however, reading the cards for another is an art – an intuitive, empathic, communication skill that can only come from a real person. But who is the Reader? Readers often project their own ego, agenda and what they want to see, so not all are of great value. Regardless, it’s all insightful and should be inspiring!

If I were getting an online Reading, I would go with an open mind, not necessarily accepting it all. Readings are information, and not all information is relevant. Trust your own inner authority because you know yourself better than anyone or anything else. I believe in “be your own oracle.” So, as a Reader, my way is to let the cards speak while I guide you the readee to your own most wise conclusions.

For an online reading based upon some kind of tarot “layout” or “spread” of preset positions, be aware – are those the questions you would like to ask? Questions bring the answers you seek, but not all questions are worthy and meaningful to you.

On my www.voyagertarot.com site, we have a free “CARD A DAY.” The cool thing about this feature is that you can have any question formed in your mind and then hit the button when the time is “right,” and get an answer to your particular question. (In all these mechanical readings, there’s a “random generator” at work in the software so the cards will probably be continuously different).

Know that the question is everything. Questions lead the way and to the truth. With the Voyager site, you can get more answers to the same question by hitting the card button again, or you can ask more questions and get more answers by clicking away. Remember this, too many cards and answers can get you confused and be of little value. “Less is more” in the tarot world.

Also, be cognizant that you may not get THE answer or the answer that you WANT. Good. Cards awaken your subconscious and get your intuition sparked and more sensitized. Sometimes, what the cards are trying to tell you become clear over time. And as the writer Gloria Steinem once wrote, “The truth shall set you free, but first it might piss you off.”

In any event, the automated answers have to be personalized by you for meaningfulness. Ask yourself, how does the card answers pertain to you? The Voyager “Card A Day” answers are general writeups of the cards and so require your own “read” of their definitions. As in the oracles of old, the seeker is expected to make the reading apply. When you, the querent, is involved in this kind of understanding, then the oracle has real value, for you are engaged and enlisted and that is how oracles work – through the almighty “self-fulfilling prophecy.”

Go ahead and get your Reading, in-person or automated, by me or another, and with the above mentioned principles, you will benefit. We are all, to an extent, victims of our own habitual and egoistic thinking. Readings break us free of old and counter-productive ways of seeing ourselves. It’s all about getting insight and one way or another, Readings provide that.

Just today, I picked a Voyager card from the Voyager site about how I was doing. It was “Stagnation.” How true. This was a day of just hanging out after a weekend of work teaching a group how to read the cards as a coaching tool. Because we do have choice and don’t let the cards abuse us, I always pick another card even if the previous card is true but sort of negative. I wanted to know how to get out of this stagnant swamp and so picked another card. This time it was the Hermit. True, true, true. It’s a time today for regenerating and healing myself with some alone and down time, which is a major dimension of the Hermit archetype.

How can the cards through a computer be so correct? It must be the “ghost in the machine.” Indeed.

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